Good night, sweet prince: And flights of angels sing thee to thy rest...
-William Shakespeare

It has been said, 'time heals all wounds.' I do not agree. The wounds remain. In time, the mind, protecting its sanity, covers them with scar tissue and the pain lessens. But it is never gone.
-Rose Kennedy

Saturday, February 2, 2008

I hate stupid people!

I sat at work yesterday with nurses that bitch about everything from hating there jobs to hating the Doctor they are working with. I want to scream at them! I can't remember who said it but I too want to say "STFU, my baby died!"

I don't know how many times I had to correct people yesterday when they said, "it can't get any worse." How the hell do they know? They obviously haven't been in my shoes. Nor, do they care to acknowledge what I have been through. "Why aren't you happy?" they say. I want to say, "Have you been living under a rock? Do you not realize what I have been going through?" Instead I say, "I'm just not, it's not a good day." I did tell someone who harrassed me yesterday, "Don't start with me, I was verbal before this all started and now it's worse. I highly suggest you leave me alone!" He in turn said, " I can handle it." " Don't think so buddy, you can't handle what I have to deal out today!" I said and the conversation ended there.

I need a shirt that says, "Deadbabymom" As much as I hate the whole deadbabymom (all as one word) I think it is the only thing that everyone would understand. Maybe they would be shocked by it and you know what I don't give a shit! Maybe then they would think about their petty crap and realize in this world, their crap really doesn't matter!

Ok, I'm done ranting about those particular stupid people. I will however make a list later of the different kinds of stupid people. Feel free to comment about how much you like stupid people. You can include the idiots at the doctors office who don't know shit!


Jennifer said...

I never realized how many stupid people there are until this happened to us. It's truly amazing. I just found your blog and am so sorry for your loss.

Antigone said...

I keep thinking about the nurse at my OB's office who asked how my baby was doing. I wish I'd been more mean than I was. I wish I'd really censured her and asked her what was so hard about looking at a patient's chart before opening your mouth. Instead, I was so focused on looking strong and not crying, I didn't say but a few words.

kalakly said...

Oh I am so, so sorry that you have joined our club. I hope, at least, that you find as much comfort and support here as I have.

I admire your courage and strength, your writing is beautiful.

William Henry, what a beautiful little man. I wish, oh how I wish...things were different.

Thank you for your kind words over at my place. It always helps to know I am not alone:)

As for the stupid people...Eff em. They're everywhere and sometimes you just have to say, FUCK YOU, my baby is dead.